the indian method and bagging fine shyt are essentially the same.
i bring in 10 uncles from india, keep 2 of the best, and cut the rest.
idc what you say, the indian method is ethical, efficient, and cheap.
doesn't matter to me if the uncle is nice and hardworking, all that matters to me is if you're real and you can do it well.
they're replaceable, and you're replaceable.
change of topic, your girl left you because someone better showed up.
or worse, you never even bagged her in the first place, unfortunate.
you don’t need to tell me, i’ve seen it too many times.
mixed signals, then disappears or gives you the no.
then you watch from the sidelines as some dumbass takes that spot.
"how'd he bag her?"
not surprising, not surprising.
you thought life would reward you for being decent, ay?
for being available, for being soft-spoken and supportive, just being that gentleman.
life doesn't pay in that sympathy though, it's all about impact.
key phrase here today, you are replaceable.
if not by another man, then by her own freedom.
she’ll replace you with space. you think you're doing something by being emotionally available?
brother, she’s emotionally unavailable to you, accept it and move on.
it’s not just women.
you get replaced at work, really quickly.
i can dump 8 guys that would love to work a job like that because the rupees they get could literally feed their village, the stupid tiktoks are no joke.
oh, it's not just women and work for you, ay?
you get replaced in conversations, no one quotes you. no one even notices when you stop talking.
why do you wonder why?
i love that line, i'm using that for everything now.
let's change the key phrase here a bit: you are forgettable.
you were so focused on being liked, you forgot what it feels like to be felt.
you don't got any presence brother, it's a shame.
everything is a value exchange, admit it or not, and you've got none to give.
and hey, i get it. no one's taught you how.
what's the noble lie we've been told?
be polite, be respectful, stay quiet, things along these lines.
as the world continues to prove, this kinda guy gets skipped or replaced.
the way to not get sidelined is in the way you sit, the way you speak, and most importantly, your energy.
your energy is your top priority to fix, because literally everything is a value exchange.
it's about impact here, if you've got nothing to give, you'll be getting nothing too.
people need others to fill in some sort of lack that they can't provide for themselves, which is why socializing is a thing.
charisma, in a sense, is just self-respect turned outward.
you get that from building yourself until you’re actually proud of what you are.
you'll be proud of different things, and people need you to fill those gaps in themselves.
it's funny how everything i talk about comes down to this once concept, and i'm glad it does.
get a grip over your life man, how hard is that?
like i said, charisma and presence is pretty much 2 things:
what can you provide to the table?
what qualities do you have that other people need/want?
you don't get these 2 things if you're not happy with who you already are.
fix the lacking areas in yourself, and you'll be able to provide them for others.
quite a simple game.
love,
m4
and yeah…
i post stuff like this every day.
not for the views, or the followers.
i post because i actually care.
no one takes life seriously anymore, but the fact that you read this far tells me you’re not like the rest.
so if you want to keep growing, keep seeing the world for what it really is, and actually do something with your life,
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